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Sexual identity concerns affecting parental relationship
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.Dear Dennis,
I met a young person recently who was having some difficulty discovering their sexual identity. This youngster approached one of their parents and was admonished and condemned for these "sinful thoughts." I know that this young person has looked at your web site, but is too shy to write their question here. My concern for this youngster is not their sexual preferences at all, but rather their relationship with their parent and the repercussions stemming from the already apparent self-loathing and lack of self-worth.
How should she handle this situation with her parents? (full text...)
Namastae, J. D.

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Can we suffer enough to make others feel better?
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.Dear Dennis,
After crying and trying to write my feelings, I have this ask – Jesus took on pain and suffering so that we would not have to suffer. I believe my twin sister has done that for me – and others in our family. Please help. These feelings of mine are deep, and I so feel sad, and so guilty to see her suffer. What can I do and say to her because I do understand and believe... D.I. (full text...)
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Can a person be in Love with 2 people at the same time?

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.Dear Dennis,
I did what you said and made a list of the qualities and attributes I would want in a significant other. Then I let it go.
Two of them appeared out of "nowhere." Is it possible to love them both? What do I do next? ~ E. M. W. . (full text...)
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Natural Relating... Friends or Lovers

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Dear Dennis,
Dennis, you’ve mentioned that, ideally, a relationship
should be based on a “two-way, spontaneous affection.
” Does that hold true as well for friendships?
E.G. (full text...)
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Sex, Sexuality & Relating

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Dear Dennis,
Dear Dennis,
I have 5 specific questions, based upon sex,
sexuality and relating. (these questions areaddressed in
2 answers in the following single link
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Choosing Love over fear

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Dear Dennis,
I have found myself at times feeling a profound sense of
sadness and alienation from others. (full text...)
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Our Natural State Is Joy
(Regardless of what
"others" may think)

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Dear Dennis,
Dear Dennis,
Why do I feel guilty and hesitant (about) moving on
with Charlie – since my husband died 2 years ago? (full text...)
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We're Never Alone
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Dear Dennis,
I had the feeling of being one person and a stronger love than
I have ever felt before. Could these possibly
be visits from the other side? (full text...)
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All is well
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Dear Dennis,
I have been able to hear on a different frequency.
My son died a year ago and I heard talking like a radio and
music I never heard before coming from the room (full text...)

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Living in the Now... Now... NOW
Q.Dear Dennis,
My husband & I have been married 31 years...
He started to fixate on his own death (full text...)
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When resistance fades Love appears

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Dear Dennis -
I really believe that there is no one out there for me!...
Debbie
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We're All 100% Responsible
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Dear Dennis -
... Sometimes one hears folks say: “She asked for it.”
Was I responsible for this? Did I really “ask for it?”
Dr. G.
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Minding Our Own Business
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My husband is a type one diabetic. One of the effects is that he is impotent...
Sincerely, D.P.B. (full text...)
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Transpersonal Astrology in
Personal Relationships

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What do you think of a Cancer (husband) and
Capricorn (wife) match? ! K. R. (full text...)
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Aging and the Mind
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... When men are older than women it seems acceptable.
But I’m older than this guy. - J.C.
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Compassion with Detachment
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A man and I are attracted to each other. He is married,
his wife has been ill with cancer... B.G.
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The Benefit of Being Self-ish
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... My husband likes plump women. Whenever I start to
lose weight he is disappointed... M.K.
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